What is a life coach?
Think of a sports coach: they will help a good athlete or sportsperson to
achieve their ultimate potential. Top athletes know that they need someone who
will help them set goals, believe in them, give them feedback, help them to try
out new things, suggest exercise and practice routines to improve their
performance and hold them accountable. A life coach does the same things, but
with your whole life, not just your sports performance.
What can coaching help me
with?
That depends on you and where you are in your life. It could include:
Career change
- Review your skills, experience, values and desires to decide on a new career
direction
- Get a more fulfilling job
- Make the transition from employment to self employment
- Improve your job hunting, CV and interview skills
Career development
- Improve your relationships with your colleagues, direct reports and boss
- Increase your organisational and political awareness
- Develop a career strategy
- Understand the impact you have on other people and change how they perceive
you
- Improve your leadership and management skills
Personal presence
- Recognise and value your strengths and gifts
- Improve your self-confidence and presence
- Identify and manage your "saboteurs"
- Change your negative habits to positive ones
Self-management
- Set up a system to get organised and work more efficiently
- Improve your work-life balance
- Manage your time
- Reduce your stress
- Have more time and energy for the things that make you happy
Business
- Review your business to identify where to best focus your energy and
investment
- Improve your sales, marketing and PR
- Develop more profitable income streams
- Review your strengths and preferences to outsource parts of your business
- Stand back from the day-to-day management to get a more strategic view
Life changes
- Find out what gives meaning and purpose to your life
- Create a sense of personal freedom and choice
- Have a clear sense of values and direction
- Rediscover and develop your creativity
- Have more fun and enjoyment in your life
- Improve your personal relationships
Is coaching all actions and exercises – my ‘to
do’ list is too long as it is?
Well, it can be, if that is what you want. Every coaching relationship is
unique, and is designed to meet your needs and desires. If you struggle to do
anything and you want someone who will hold you to lots of actions, we can make
that happen.
On the other hand, if your life is over-busy, then maybe you need some space
to step back and ‘be’ rather than ‘do’. Then you can reflect on what is
really important, and get your sense of perspective back. We can make that
happen too.
How would you like coaching to be? What would you like to get out of it? If
you decide to take me on as your coach, we will discuss what you want and design
that into the relationship.
Do you specialise in certain types of people?
I love to work with successful people who want more! People who have achieved
things, made some progress, and now want to go up to the next level.
I like to work with people from a professional or corporate background.
Partly because that is my background too, so I understand it.
I’m interested in people who have been successful in their career and their
life up to now, and who are finding that their career alone or their current
lifestyle no longer satisfies them. Maybe they are asking some deeper questions
like "how can I express my creativity?" or "what do I really want
to do (or be)?" or "how can I make a difference in the world?" or
"what is my life purpose?"
I enjoy helping people who want a career review – to step back and work out
if their current job is the right one and, if not, what they would rather be
doing.
I should add that I have had successful coaching relationships with people
who don’t meet any of these criteria, but these are the areas where I have
particular experience and expertise.
What are your qualifications?
I trained as a coach with The Coaches Training Institute (CTI) in 2006. I am
a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF) and abide by their
standards of ethical conduct. I hold full professional indemnity and liability
insurance.
I have certificates in person-centred and psychodynamic counselling, a
diploma in NLP, a postgraduate Diploma in Transpersonal Arts and Practice and an
MSc in Organisation Development. Previously, I was a management consultant for
Ernst & Young (now Capgemini), specialising in change management and
organisation development, and before that held various management roles.
Can I ‘try before I buy’?
Yes. We can arrange a taster session. This normally lasts about 30 minutes.
It includes some coaching and gives you the opportunity to ask me whatever
questions you like.
Most coaches do this, and it is a good way to see if you ‘gel’ with your
potential coach. It is important that you feel comfortable working with your
coach before you commit, so I encourage you to do this with me, and with any
other coach you may be considering.
Do you ever turn people down?
Yes! If I thought that someone would not benefit from coaching, it
would be unethical of me to take them on as a client.
For some people, counselling or therapy are more appropriate than coaching.
For instance, if someone is severely depressed, or if they have big issues from
their past or from family relationships to work through.
What commitment do I need to make?
You make an initial commitment of three months, and then we carry on month by
month. When you want to end the relationship, I ask you to give me a month’s
notice.
How does coaching work?
We start with a ‘discovery session’ to really get to know each other.
This normally lasts about two hours, and includes a number of exercises to help
uncover where you are in your life, what your values are, how you see yourself
in the future as well as designing how we will work together. This is charged as
a month’s fee, but doesn’t count towards your initial three months’
commitment.
If you live near me, (South East Hampshire, South West Sussex), I can come to
your house to do this. If you don’t, then we will do this on the phone,
probably over a couple of sessions, with homework in between.
After that, coaching will be on the phone (you phone me). We will have two
hours telephone contact per month. My preference is three 40 minute calls, but I
can also do four 30 minute calls or two hour-long calls. I can be flexible.
How much do you charge?
I charge £250 per calendar month for typically three 40 minute telephone
coaching sessions.
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